Marriage is Not A Mystery

''That isn't even on the radar. No kids, no marriage, none of that is about to pop off. Why some people get married, is a mystery to me.'' These are the words of Chris Brown, the young great rapper who have become infamous for beating R&B singer Rihanna on their way to an award events night sometime in 2009. This is sad for me or at least the “Why some people get married, is a mystery to me” part because I love people who respect the sacrament of marriage. Also, this is so wrong for a guy who has just picked up a relationship just recently with a person he hurt emotionally and physically.

Of course, I have no reason to question why Chris Brown said these things because in the first place it was Rihanna who was too eager to jump into the relationship again and even proudly talked about appearing together for the Grammy’s on February 10. It is just too sad for me because I liked them both and I like them being together again for they just proved that love can conquer all but with Chris clearly talking about not believing in marriage, I am thinking if this getting back together is all for show.

In my own belief, I think a man who truly loves someone should feel remorse on anything he has done to this person in the past. Part of that is trying to make up on everything that they may had lost or given up. And the way I see it with Chris Brown, he doesn’t even give a crap on how Rihanna will feel about what he is saying.

Or maybe I am just a helpless romantic who thinks that every person who tries so hard to win a relationship again with a person he or she has just hurt should show a lot of remorse.